A natural progression for experienced practitioners is to begin using a meditation timer and start doing unguided meditation. With enough practice, you can begin to direct each session yourself and choose what you want to focus on. With enough practice, meditation can be a tool in your backpocket, ready to use at any time when you need it.
How to use a meditation timer
With these specific meditation timers, you’ll hear a Tibetan bowl chime at the start, signalling your practice has started. At the half way of the duration you select, you’ll hear another Tibetan bowl chime. At the end of your practice, you’ll hear 3 Tibetan bowl chimes, letting you know the session has finished.
First, you’ll want to find a comfortable spot. This can be a chair or cushion on the floor.
Next, it’s a good idea to set an intention for the practice. Since you’re meditating without a guide, you’ll need to ensure you’re reminding yourself, before you start, why you’re meditating today.
From there, start the timer, and close your eyes. Take a few deep breaths. Release any tension from your face, shoulders or upper back.
Now, begin to notice each breath as it passes. To make it easier to observe the breath, count each inhalation and exhalation.
As you do this, your mind will likely wander. The important thing is that you notice this without any judgements, and gently return your focus back to the breath.
Once your timer ends, reflect on how your practice was. Did your mind wander for a long period of time without you noticing? Or were you able to notice the mind wander several times and you were able to return your attention to the practice?
You may think at this point that noticing your mind wandering several times is a failure but in actuality, noticing your mind wandering several times means you were able to pay attention to your thoughts without a guide, which means your practice was a success.
However, if you noticed that most of your practice was your mind wandering without you noticing, you may want to return to using guided meditations for mindfulness, developing that skill, and returning to unguided meditations when you’re ready.
Unguided meditation timers